What’s the worst experience you’ve ever had with a bully?

What’s the worst experience you’ve ever had with a bully?

What happened? How did you deal with it?

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mcm's picture
mcm on Tue, 05/08/2012

Bullying

Bullying is a serious issue. My school has a bullying book, and there were stories about people killing themselves because they were that hurt! If you ever feel like you want to mean or bully someone, remember that they have feelings. They could cry, or worse, they could hurt themselves or others. Stand up for bullying. You could save someone’s life. Like this if you agree with me.
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Destiney Rose on Thu, 11/17/2011

oh yeah!
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krissy25 on Sun, 11/13/2011

HHHHEEEELLLLPPPP

there is a girl who keeps calling me names i need help now i tried i told teachers, principals, everyone
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krissy25 on Sat, 11/12/2011

Help me now

i’ve been bullied every day by the same girl .i need some help ,ive done everything but she won’t stop.i told the counsler, teachers, principal even super intendent i some help now.
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akie autumn98 on Wed, 12/07/2011

I Believe

I think you should tell them again but this time say “there is a girl that keeps picking on me and I have told her to stop,I tried to ignore it and It’s starting to hurt my feelings”. Tell them something like that they will help I promise.
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artsybabe on Fri, 11/11/2011

tip!!!!

if someone sticks there tongue out at you you should say “yeah i don’t want that in my mouth either”LOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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akie autumn98 on Wed, 12/07/2011

I Wouldn't

I don’t think you should because when It gets to namecalling and you shoot back some comments you could get in serious trouble, It’s my opinion.
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Renee24 on Mon, 10/31/2011

A girl

A girl (who I used to be friends with) keeps e-mailing me saying how she doesn’t like me!
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rainbow99 on Fri, 12/23/2011

Advice

That is plain mean and rude, that she’s emailing you and saying she doesn’t like you. Tell an adult you trust.
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PinkDreamss1013 on Sun, 10/30/2011

Bullying

Bullying happens a lot. The best thing to do is to tell an adult. They can handle it the right way and your problems can be fixed! Also if you see bullying happening don’t just stand there and watch! Stand up for the person or tell an adult. Standing up doesn’t mean getting physical and teasing the bully. Just tell them what there doing that is wrong and it’s hurts what they are doing. Bullying isn’t nice at all.
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rainbow99 on Fri, 12/23/2011

ur advice is awesome!!!

great advice!
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ilovemusic9 on Mon, 02/13/2012

RE: ur advice is awesome!!!

Thanks for commenting my Bullying advice! Feel free to ask me for any advice! :-)
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lovely805 on Sun, 10/23/2011

bully

they called me discusting names but i stood up to them and they no longer picked on me!
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songwriter57 on Sun, 10/16/2011

HHHHHHEEEEELLLLLLPPPPP!

At my new school this girl keeps making fun of me for having a crush on this guy who I don’t have a crush on. Now the whole class thinks I am werid. I dont have any friends! What to do?
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Renee24 on Mon, 10/24/2011

First

First of all, relax. Just go up to the girl and say, I don’t like that boy and I’d appreciate if you stop saying that I do. And who cares about what your class thinks! They are probably jealous of you. Just keep a smile on your face and keep your head held high and you will make many friends! :)
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songwriter57 on Tue, 10/25/2011

Thanks

Thank-you so much! I will do that next time she does that!
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Renee24 on Sat, 10/29/2011

Glad

I’m glad I could help!!!! :)
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noguyz4me on Sat, 10/08/2011

bullied nonstop

I started a new school awhile ago and was HATED the minute I entered the school.It definetly wasnt my best day of sixth grade. 3 girls went up 2 me and started messing with me. I was really bugged. The next day I wore jeans and a tee wich was tighter but not TO tight. The problem was i’m flat chested and it showed. The bullys came up to me with they’re boyfriends and decided to tease me about it. It REALLY hurt my feelings. Every day it’s kept on and i think from time to time of telling an adult but then i change my mind. Should i tell someone?
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akie autumn98 on Wed, 12/07/2011

Yes

You should tell someone so they can stop it you gotta be confident!
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Renee24 on Mon, 10/10/2011

Yes!!!!!

That is so mean! The only way to stop it, is to tell your parents and your principal. I hope this helps. Good luck!
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noguyz4me on Mon, 10/17/2011

thank you!

Thank you soooo much. I told my principal the next day and it all ended. I’m SO happy. THANK YOU!
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Renee24 on Mon, 10/24/2011

Your welcome

Your welcome! I’m glad I could help! Glad things worked out! :)
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Kdog 868 on Fri, 10/07/2011

Jealousy

My BFF Danielle has been jealous of me for the last few weeks. She is jealous over the stupidest reasons like volleyball, I get to play more, test grades, she hasn’t been doing so well, and finally a new pair of shoes I got yesterday, hers don’t fit anymore because she hasn’t worn them in over a year! Now she treats me like crap! It really hurts my feelings! :(
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babies7 on Sat, 10/22/2011

I know how you feel

Jealousy can be really annoying! She is most likely jealous because she admires you! She is your BFF- kindly talk to her that she is bugging you.
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flipflopgirl338 on Sat, 09/10/2011

Stand up for yourself

A girl used to bully me right to my face but I guess i bored her by keep saying, ” Hey! Heres an idea! Leave me alone!” Now she just spreads rumors and bad talks. its a little better than just saying it to my face. But, i just push away her meanness.
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leslie on Sun, 08/21/2011

mean!

i was in 4th grade and 3 girls were really mean to me they always called me and called me names and i was actually really skinny and tomorrow im starting 5th grade i really dont want to be with them ! wish me good luck plz :) my stomack hurts badly
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Renee24 on Fri, 08/26/2011

Just

Just relax. I wish you luck! If they are in your class just stand upfor yourself. :)
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puppyluck113 on Sun, 08/21/2011

My experiences with the

My experiences with the bullies were extreme and harsh.Sometimes I feel lonelly and invisible.I could not deal with her!She was on my last nerve when I finally told my mother and pops.My other friends had delt were her imature,selfish self.My mom reported her to the main office and princal.She was suspended for four days.After she got out of suspention,she said sorry,but I was still mad.
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Katniss Everdeen on Thu, 08/18/2011

The WORST EVER!

I am a pretty good speller and also good at math, so everyone says I’m a nerd! I hate it so much and wish they would stop!
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rainbow99 on Thu, 05/10/2012

babies7 is right!!

babies7 has advice!!
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babies7 on Sat, 10/22/2011

Nerd is bad word

I hate the stereotype “nerd”. It is very mean. It is great to be a good speller and at math too! They are calling you that rude name because they want to be just like you : )
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boeboe009 on Sun, 08/14/2011

Not So Smart

I’m going into middle school and I’m not really sooo smart. I have a lot trouble in science and probably will have trouble in music class. They’re going to be special classes that we could take if we want to and they’ll help us with the subjects that we need help with. I’m afraid that I’m going to get teased if I take any of these special classes. What should I do?????
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lilcherry31 on Wed, 08/31/2011

UGH!

look honestly its non of their business whether you take these classes or NOT! Tell the teacher! You might get called a tattletale but just remember their only calling you a tattletale cuz there mad thay got in trouble
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jennyroxz1013 on Thu, 08/18/2011

your not going to get teased

your not going to get teased boeboe if you get teased then tell them to shh your little mouth people.Then walk away.
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Renee24 on Mon, 08/15/2011

Don't listen to them.

Don’t listen to them! If people tease you, they’re probably jealous because you will end up smarter then them when you finish the class.
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boeboe009 on Tue, 08/16/2011

BLOG GIRL

Thanx 4 Thh Advice Renee24! (:
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Renee24 on Tue, 08/16/2011

No Problem

No problem!!!!!
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Angel77663 on Sun, 08/07/2011

Be proud!

The ‘popular’ kids in my school are pretty much rude! They called me fat,ugly and a nerd! I was a nerd because I got good grades. I was ugly because I dressed properly and didn’t wear make up. I wasn’t fat either, I eat properly, walk my dog everyday, climb mountains and much more! To be ‘popular’ in my class you nedd to gossip, be mean, wear make up, wear very tight or low cut clothes …..you get the idea? After learning all this I decided I would become popular but not become that kind of ‘popular’. And actually it worked! I gained many friends who I enjoy being with. They still hung out with me even though I was ‘fat’, ‘ugly’ and a ‘nerd’. One of my friends was called ‘fat’ but actually she danced almost everyday! My friends made me realize you don’t have to be mean to be popular. Just be yourself you’ll do great! P.S: If you are called ‘ugly’, ‘fat’, ‘nerd’ or anything like that. Don’t believe them because if you do you will be believing in lies. Be proud of yourself!
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TuTuBoo on Wed, 08/03/2011

New Bullying

When I moved I thought I would get teased less. Boy was I wrong. A boy in my class first called me fat (I was actually very skinny), and then he told me to shut the *fudge* up. I started to really imagine revenge but I knew that nothing was better than telling the teacher so I did. The bully got in so much trouble. Needless to say he wasn’t giving me any trouble after that. Advice: You are not a tattletale if you tell on bullying. If someone’s giving you a lot of trouble someone has the right to know.
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songwriter57 on Mon, 10/17/2011

Helpful

That is so helpful! I am always afraid to tell my teacher because I don’t want to seem like a tattle tale!
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Katniss Everdeen on Thu, 08/18/2011

Great Job

Amazing for Staying Strong!
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Helen23 on Tue, 08/02/2011

Bullying BFFs

Sammy and I are best friends. We met in preschool and we were friends for seven years. Then Sammy started hanging out with other kids. I started hanging out with other kids too. But Sammy did everything with me then she just ditched me and had the nerve to call me and complain about how she felt left out. I felt that she was making up things to her mom saying I was doing stuff to her. Any time she was mean to me I would just attack her with a snarky attitude. Now I am not proud of it , but she treated me bad. I talked about her to my parents and, my friends started asking me why we weren’t talking then I had the feeling she was talking about me behind my back. So I was just sassier. Finally my mom had enough she told me I had to be polite no matter what. Sammy’s mom was friends with my mom and same with dads. So they came down my shore house. We went to the beach Sammy started apologizing to me saying she was abully and I was one too. Here we are now still friends for seven years and hopefully seven years more maybe longer I woul like that better.
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Renee24 on Sun, 08/14/2011

Hey

Hey Girl Friend! It’s Sammy! (Not my real name)
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Karen24 on Mon, 08/22/2011

Hey

BCF?????????
boeboe009's picture
boeboe009 on Wed, 08/03/2011

BLOG GIRL

That is such a wonderful ending ! =)
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lion23rty on Mon, 07/25/2011

Now my enemy

In 3rd grade i was going to meet the teacher day and i met this girl who seemed super sweet and nice. So we became friends. About 3 weeks after we met she started acting like a bully to me and my friends from 2nd grade. She stated making me throw food, hit people, bully my BFF from 2nd grade, and be mean to the teacher. I tried to ignore her but she would make me be her friend again. About 6 months into the year she invited me over to her house. We had a blast and forgave each other for all the stuff we did and said to each other. About 2 months before school was over I went outside and my friend’s dad was talking to my dad. About 5 minutes later my dad told me i couldn’t talk to my friend. My heart sank. The next day I told my friend about it. She refused to answer and that day and for the next 2 months she bullied me and told her new “BFF” ALL my secrets and they started making fun of me. The only good thing about her not being able to talk to her is that I stopped getting in trouble and got okay again with my old BFF and her friends (which are really nice) and managed to get forgiven by this boy we beat up every recess. Now whenever I think of this I start crying because of how mean I was. Now I hope NOTHING will ever happen like that again. -Was A Bully
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lion23rty on Mon, 12/19/2011

Me too!!!

That was EXACTLY what happened to me!!!!!
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Katniss Everdeen on Thu, 08/18/2011

:(

So SAD!!!!!!!! BUT I WUV THE ENDING!
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Renee24 on Mon, 07/25/2011

Why me?

(All the names have been changed by author)2nd Grade We met in second grade. She was new to the school, and I thought she could be my friend. So I went over to her and we started talking like we knew each other. She was my new friend. We started doing a lot of stuff together at school. I was helping her, she was helping me, we were partners, and it was great! Anna and Sadie- Good Friends 3rd Grade In third grade Anna wasn’t in my class and we didn’t see each other so much. And our friendship stared to fade. 4th Grade In fourth grade Anna and I were in the same class and we began to get along again. We were known as best friends in Mrs. Herney’s class. 5th Grade In the beginning of fifth grade, we were still friends. We talked all the time. But then Mrs. Eels moved Anna’s seat next to Canella. And moved me next to Addie and David. And that was the back row. So now the back row was Anna, Canella, Addie, me, then David. I didn’t like it. It was quite in the back row until Canella and Anna started talking all the time. David started talking to me. So Mrs.Eels wanted me to help him in math, so I did. Then Canella and Anna start talking about me. “She likes David” “OMG!” It was really annoying. Then, David and Dylan asked me to play wall ball and I said sure. I played every day with them and the girls were laughing and teasing me. At lunch, a group of girls (Lilly, Hammy, Anna, and Canella) asked me why I play with David and Dylan so much, and I walked away, then, they came over and asked me again. I said, “Because they’re my friends.” They said “More like boyfriends.” Then they started laughing, and I said “no!” and I walked away. Some girls kept laughing while Anna and Canella walked away talking. Then, Canella laughed because Caitlyn lied to the substitute teacher and said “we didn’t go outside yesterday” just so we could go out again today. I said “I don’t think she should have lied to the teacher” and Canella said “she probably would let us go out any way.” And I said “But still” and she turned around and rolled her eyes at Shellie and Madison and they walked away laughing under their breath. Friends can turn on your back just like that, so be careful about who you can trust~ Renee24
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Briar24 on Thu, 07/21/2011

Bullying.

In fifth grade this one girl named Jenny came up too me and told me she hated me and I ruined her life (she was very popular) she said very bad things and swear words too me. I wasn’t very popular and I was stunned! I didn’t even know her. I just stood their shocked.the popular girls were always in a pack. I just stood there. I wish I could of gone back in time and said something now stick up for myself. I’m really popular now like super popular in a good way though.those group of girls still r mean but I know what too say
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