Actually, I haven’t fought with my friends in a long time. But When I was younger I was such a Pre-Maddona! I’d make a big deal out of nothing! Like, I would say…* No, It’s to late! I can’t Be Your Friend!”* And so on. But In some weird way my friends and I worked it out. Yeah, I’ve forgotten how it’s like to argue.
My best friend and I get in fights constantly. She thinks she is perfect but we are BFF’s! She can be a brat sometimes, and she doesn’t listen when I tell her that she has been mean to me. Sometimes I think it is hard for her to admit being mean or wrong, but in her head she regrets all the mean things she has done. We live about 5 minutes away from each other, but we are zoned for different middle schools. I’m Dealing and she is too. But I want a best friend that can jogg with me and goes to the same school as me and lives in my neighborhood. My BFF doen’t live in my subdivision. She lives in another one. She is coming over Saturday and is sleeping over! Help Me! I hope i just dont accidentily, BUMP her off my BFF cliff!
Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she gets mad because you want other frinds, should you be her friend? If she seems okay with it, then go ahead and make more friends. Whatever you do, if she gets mad, STAY CALM, don’t say things you’ll regret later. Even if you do make other friends, make sure to try and include her in your ‘weekend’ plans. Don’t ignore her completly.
we give each other space until we miss each other too much, and then we apologize. i cant make friends or else she just tells everyone what i did….and i cant talk cuz its too awkward
I usually don’t have major fights with friends, but if I did I would talk with her until we made up. I would never give her the silent treatment because that’s just a big way of making a minor fight into a major one! Once my friend and another friend of mine were arguing because she didn’t give her a science textbook that she lent her for her homework. They gave each other the silent treatment and soon, the friendship was O-V-E-R! Also, why would you make new friends? I mean, it’s perfectly fine to make new friends, but not in place of this friend!
Come on!
I have an important Q for U! Are you and Lauren in a fight? Sorry to ask but I saw the reply Lauren sent after Isabella’s comment! It was on the shaving poll. Please Reply.
My BFFs and I never ever fight only once for every friend is the way it is with me. My BFFs and I will get into a stupid argument that hurts both of our feelings really bad, then we give each other the ST but then one of us gives in and youd never know we were just mad @ each other. But sometimes rhat isnt the case unfortunatly. One time my BFF was just kidding around with me but she said something that really hurt my feelings I ignored it for the moment and ( since it was during a sleep-over ) I went home the next day for the rest of the week I Gave her the ST she noticed and she was really really hurt I wasn’t talking to her, so she called me that night and told me she was really upset i wasnt talking to her I told hewr why I wasn’t talking to her, and she felt sooo bad for not realizing she was hurting my feelings. after that we made up but now I live in a new state and she and i only rarely talk to each other but I was her BFF for 4 years She is still one of my old silver bffs. I have new gold friends Like that saying “make new friends but always keep the old”
Fights:
1. Someone brings up a personal topic the other doesn’t agree on.
2. They start arguing politely.
3. One or the other raises her voice.
4. They start blaming whoever is near, maybe even you.
5. When one girl gives up, she to you for support. You feel sorry that she’s the weakest, but the other looks intimidating—what should you do?
6. Don’t take one side. Just lay low and comfort the two friends until the storm is over.
Hope this advice helps you if you’re the girl in the middle.
I’ve never had a fight with a friend that involves me as the main target, so I don’t know what I would do. I’d probably give her [as in my friend and her army] the silent treatment.
-Nobodie
My friend and i are in a fight right now she goes on other people msn and pretends to be the person and says mean things. she did it to a friend and then my friend called me a bad word. LOL. Help Me i don’t want to lose this friendship.
I have a BFF (A) who doesn’t want to friends with BFF (B) anymore. BFF B also doesn’t want to be friends with A, and they both tell me everything. I’m fine with that, because they only want me to listen, but the thing is that they won’t talk to each other about it. I’ll have us set a date or something, and I’ll bring it up, but they just pretend they can’t hear me or the other best friend! One of them is lying and B says A is saying mean things to me behind my back. A is really different this year too, and is hanging out with some people me and B think are bad infulences, but B is telling people A’s secrets. and A is not trusting B anymore! A is being sort of self-absorbed and she doesn’t care how her crush treats us (which is badly). HELP! How do I get them to talk about it!?
having 2 friends that are in a fight seems hard. but you got to remember that its not your battle, even though your triing to help (like any good friend would) yourve done all you can. you have to leave it up to them to make the dission to talk about it them selfs. you can still hang out with them and if one friend spills a secret of the other frien yuo shuold tell her that its not right. also if they are your only friends it might be good to make some new ones (while keeping your old ones) so when they start to fight you can walk away and not wast the time there fighting walking around alone. its not your fault so you shouldnt suffer!
p.s. you should tell your friends how yuo feel and how this probleme is afecting you and if they ignore you maybe you need
u must be really comfuzzled. There r a few options in this situation.(well, that is if u wnt 2 follow this advice.) It seems like bff A and B arent really clicking. Option #1 Talk it out. U already tried it? try it this time by saying that this is affecting u a bit 2 much, and that she should try talking 2 the other bff. Option #2 And bff A, well, it seams like shes being a bit harsh. Her bf’s not respectful, shes hanging w/ the wrong croud, u might have 2 drop `er. Especally if she cant work out a few of these problems.Option#3 which one is it more fun 2 have out w/? when u decide, c if u really like the other one. Im srry if my advice isnt very good, but i tried. Good Luck!!
p.s. get back 2 me… i want 2 hear the results. Thnx
everybody always talks about the girl in the middle, well what about if yuor on the side here are some tips and fights:
fight1:
one girl who is your friend or a friend of your friend insults(or anything mean) to you. you get upset.but your other friend who is friends with this mean girl doesnt know so its hard to explain.
tips
1: explain to your friend why you upset at the other girl.
2: ask her (now that she know the situation) if she could help stand up for you because if not the other girl will just keep on doing it.
3: ignore the mean girl and just move on with your life.
3.2: if your friend who is in the middle doesnt want to help you and wants to “split” the time with u and the other girl then yuo should try to make other friends.
I have this friend who is really mean to me. She once drew on a picture that I worked really hard on, and when things don’t get her way, she threatens me and says, “i’m telling the teacher.” She’s also a hog. I gave her all my pencils, and the only thing she gave me in return was a broken pencil with sharpie all over it! [She lost all my pencils.] How can I deal? She laughs at me, but she’s so….powerful…..what xan I do?
-Nobodie
Have you told her this? If you haven’t you should, and if you have, then try it again. Say that your not kidding. Tell her that your NOT happy with her. If she keeps messing with you, you should make new friends. Make new friends no matter what, actullay. Tell her that if she keeps doing this, then you won’t be her friend anymore. And I know that it seems hard, and you might be afraid that she’ll hurt you, but just remember, do you really want someone like her as your friend?
I’m sort of afraid that she’ll hurt me….phisically. She has really big hands, and I’ve been pushed by her more than twice, and she laughs. She laughs all the time, even at things that are not funny. She always cheers me up when she laughs…..most of the time, and she’s popular, and I’m just a Wannabe. I can’t control her! :*(
so yeah…. if i fought with my friend(get real…. that would never happen), i would stick to her anyway, but make new friends. i would wait for her to start talking to me again.
hey guys your probably reading this to get advice but the truth is i need advice!!!!!!!!!my bff says i am treating her like im better than her but she is treating me the same way!i love her to death and i am very proud of her she has been on a couple of comercials,is great in cheer,and plays the piano proudly!i love her to death and will always be there 4 her! we get in fights alot but there usally disagreements.this is the longest fight yet .i dont know what to do pleazzzzzzzzzzze reply to me!!! if your reading this u mean alot to me!
It sounds like u have a really talented bff, and a sticky sitch. But, shes telling u, that she is jelous, but ur jelous of her,2. Am i right? There is no reason 4 jelousy 4 any1. Tell her u rnt perfect and rnt trying 2 b better than her. If she cant take that, than is she worth it? Good luck!!
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Well...
Actually, I haven’t fought with my friends in a long time. But When I was younger I was such a Pre-Maddona! I’d make a big deal out of nothing! Like, I would say…* No, It’s to late! I can’t Be Your Friend!”* And so on. But In some weird way my friends and I worked it out. Yeah, I’ve forgotten how it’s like to argue.
Talk
I don’t remeber if my friend and I ever had a fight. Maybe a small one. But I’d never give her the silent treament. NEVER!!
Talk it out
Usually my friends and I don’t have any big fights, but if we would, I think we would talk it out.
<3 Courtney
Bump BFF Bye?
My best friend and I get in fights constantly. She thinks she is perfect but we are BFF’s! She can be a brat sometimes, and she doesn’t listen when I tell her that she has been mean to me. Sometimes I think it is hard for her to admit being mean or wrong, but in her head she regrets all the mean things she has done. We live about 5 minutes away from each other, but we are zoned for different middle schools. I’m Dealing and she is too. But I want a best friend that can jogg with me and goes to the same school as me and lives in my neighborhood. My BFF doen’t live in my subdivision. She lives in another one. She is coming over Saturday and is sleeping over! Help Me! I hope i just dont accidentily, BUMP her off my BFF cliff!
PS: I still want to be her BFF!!
TALK TO HER!
Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she gets mad because you want other frinds, should you be her friend? If she seems okay with it, then go ahead and make more friends. Whatever you do, if she gets mad, STAY CALM, don’t say things you’ll regret later. Even if you do make other friends, make sure to try and include her in your ‘weekend’ plans. Don’t ignore her completly.
omg
same thing happens to me
i know the feeling....
my bff does the EXACT same thing
we give each other space
we give each other space until we miss each other too much, and then we apologize. i cant make friends or else she just tells everyone what i did….and i cant talk cuz its too awkward
Fighting
I usually don’t have major fights with friends, but if I did I would talk with her until we made up. I would never give her the silent treatment because that’s just a big way of making a minor fight into a major one! Once my friend and another friend of mine were arguing because she didn’t give her a science textbook that she lent her for her homework. They gave each other the silent treatment and soon, the friendship was O-V-E-R! Also, why would you make new friends? I mean, it’s perfectly fine to make new friends, but not in place of this friend! Come on!
Cocoa/ Zoey
I have an important Q for U! Are you and Lauren in a fight? Sorry to ask but I saw the reply Lauren sent after Isabella’s comment! It was on the shaving poll. Please Reply.
P.S.~ Can we be like Sisters?:) Court!!:)
Make up friends!
My BFFs and I never ever fight only once for every friend is the way it is with me. My BFFs and I will get into a stupid argument that hurts both of our feelings really bad, then we give each other the ST but then one of us gives in and youd never know we were just mad @ each other. But sometimes rhat isnt the case unfortunatly. One time my BFF was just kidding around with me but she said something that really hurt my feelings I ignored it for the moment and ( since it was during a sleep-over ) I went home the next day for the rest of the week I Gave her the ST she noticed and she was really really hurt I wasn’t talking to her, so she called me that night and told me she was really upset i wasnt talking to her I told hewr why I wasn’t talking to her, and she felt sooo bad for not realizing she was hurting my feelings. after that we made up but now I live in a new state and she and i only rarely talk to each other but I was her BFF for 4 years She is still one of my old silver bffs. I have new gold friends Like that saying “make new friends but always keep the old”
Stuck In The Middle
Hey DG Girls!
Fights: 1. Someone brings up a personal topic the other doesn’t agree on. 2. They start arguing politely. 3. One or the other raises her voice. 4. They start blaming whoever is near, maybe even you. 5. When one girl gives up, she to you for support. You feel sorry that she’s the weakest, but the other looks intimidating—what should you do? 6. Don’t take one side. Just lay low and comfort the two friends until the storm is over.
Hope this advice helps you if you’re the girl in the middle.
~snickerdoodles~
No Go?
I’ve never had a fight with a friend that involves me as the main target, so I don’t know what I would do. I’d probably give her [as in my friend and her army] the silent treatment. -Nobodie
friends
My friend and i are in a fight right now she goes on other people msn and pretends to be the person and says mean things. she did it to a friend and then my friend called me a bad word. LOL. Help Me i don’t want to lose this friendship.
Miss. fahiongurly
Dear miss fahiongurly
i had that happen 2 me once i dont no if the girl i think did it did it but im not sure anyway now lots of poeple dont like me and its all her fault!!
friend
I have two friends who hate eachother…it can be sooo annoying
My BFFs are Fighting
I have a BFF (A) who doesn’t want to friends with BFF (B) anymore. BFF B also doesn’t want to be friends with A, and they both tell me everything. I’m fine with that, because they only want me to listen, but the thing is that they won’t talk to each other about it. I’ll have us set a date or something, and I’ll bring it up, but they just pretend they can’t hear me or the other best friend! One of them is lying and B says A is saying mean things to me behind my back. A is really different this year too, and is hanging out with some people me and B think are bad infulences, but B is telling people A’s secrets. and A is not trusting B anymore! A is being sort of self-absorbed and she doesn’t care how her crush treats us (which is badly). HELP! How do I get them to talk about it!?
thats hard!
having 2 friends that are in a fight seems hard. but you got to remember that its not your battle, even though your triing to help (like any good friend would) yourve done all you can. you have to leave it up to them to make the dission to talk about it them selfs. you can still hang out with them and if one friend spills a secret of the other frien yuo shuold tell her that its not right. also if they are your only friends it might be good to make some new ones (while keeping your old ones) so when they start to fight you can walk away and not wast the time there fighting walking around alone. its not your fault so you shouldnt suffer! p.s. you should tell your friends how yuo feel and how this probleme is afecting you and if they ignore you maybe you need
Confuzzled
u must be really comfuzzled. There r a few options in this situation.(well, that is if u wnt 2 follow this advice.) It seems like bff A and B arent really clicking. Option #1 Talk it out. U already tried it? try it this time by saying that this is affecting u a bit 2 much, and that she should try talking 2 the other bff. Option #2 And bff A, well, it seams like shes being a bit harsh. Her bf’s not respectful, shes hanging w/ the wrong croud, u might have 2 drop `er. Especally if she cant work out a few of these problems.Option#3 which one is it more fun 2 have out w/? when u decide, c if u really like the other one. Im srry if my advice isnt very good, but i tried. Good Luck!! p.s. get back 2 me… i want 2 hear the results. Thnx
GIRLS ON THE SIDE
everybody always talks about the girl in the middle, well what about if yuor on the side here are some tips and fights:
fight1: one girl who is your friend or a friend of your friend insults(or anything mean) to you. you get upset.but your other friend who is friends with this mean girl doesnt know so its hard to explain. tips 1: explain to your friend why you upset at the other girl. 2: ask her (now that she know the situation) if she could help stand up for you because if not the other girl will just keep on doing it. 3: ignore the mean girl and just move on with your life. 3.2: if your friend who is in the middle doesnt want to help you and wants to “split” the time with u and the other girl then yuo should try to make other friends.
Brat Bummer
I have this friend who is really mean to me. She once drew on a picture that I worked really hard on, and when things don’t get her way, she threatens me and says, “i’m telling the teacher.” She’s also a hog. I gave her all my pencils, and the only thing she gave me in return was a broken pencil with sharpie all over it! [She lost all my pencils.] How can I deal? She laughs at me, but she’s so….powerful…..what xan I do? -Nobodie
You need to talk to her
Have you told her this? If you haven’t you should, and if you have, then try it again. Say that your not kidding. Tell her that your NOT happy with her. If she keeps messing with you, you should make new friends. Make new friends no matter what, actullay. Tell her that if she keeps doing this, then you won’t be her friend anymore. And I know that it seems hard, and you might be afraid that she’ll hurt you, but just remember, do you really want someone like her as your friend?
Thanks....But.....
I’m sort of afraid that she’ll hurt me….phisically. She has really big hands, and I’ve been pushed by her more than twice, and she laughs. She laughs all the time, even at things that are not funny. She always cheers me up when she laughs…..most of the time, and she’s popular, and I’m just a Wannabe. I can’t control her! :*(
-Nobodie
NO! I NEED STUFF
so yeah…. if i fought with my friend(get real…. that would never happen), i would stick to her anyway, but make new friends. i would wait for her to start talking to me again.
Im in a fight right now
hey guys your probably reading this to get advice but the truth is i need advice!!!!!!!!!my bff says i am treating her like im better than her but she is treating me the same way!i love her to death and i am very proud of her she has been on a couple of comercials,is great in cheer,and plays the piano proudly!i love her to death and will always be there 4 her! we get in fights alot but there usally disagreements.this is the longest fight yet .i dont know what to do pleazzzzzzzzzzze reply to me!!! if your reading this u mean alot to me!
It sounds like u have a
It sounds like u have a really talented bff, and a sticky sitch. But, shes telling u, that she is jelous, but ur jelous of her,2. Am i right? There is no reason 4 jelousy 4 any1. Tell her u rnt perfect and rnt trying 2 b better than her. If she cant take that, than is she worth it? Good luck!!