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Friends!
A boy can be your BEST friend, some are just inmature, but some boys can turn out to be your best bud!!
All Canadian Girly, Jenna
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thats true about the immatureity i agree
Boy BFF's
I totally agree I have more boy BFF’s then girls!!! Sometimes boys don’t really get it that you can’t talk with your mounth full, you don’t promise to hang out with someone then ditch them for football. ( which is really fun to play with him sometimes!!) ITS WORTH IT!!!!
Thats true!!!!!Guy BFFs are
Thats true!!!!!Guy BFFs are better than girl BFFs because girls can be mean because of super-dumb reasons like jealousy and fight over stuff like shoes and purses and there is also the problem when [girl] BFFs have the same crush Which doesnt happen when a girl has a boy BFF!!!!!!!!!! Although boys can be A LOT more immature than girls
i here you sista! i have so
i here you sista! i have so many friends that are guys! but sometimes it gets annoying because my girl friends don’t understand that we’re just friends and so they make fun of me like a bunch! its really mean cuz they don’t get it.
Thanks
Thanks for the advice on the boy best bud…..cuz sometimes I hang out with this boy a lot and everyone thinks he is gross but really isn’t but i really thank you for the advice
How Do You Deal When Your Crush Doesn't Like You Back?
It may be hard when you find out that your crush doesn’t like you back, but you kind of just have to deal with it. Your crush may like you, but he isn’t ready to admit it yet. He may also just want to be friends with you. It’s okay to get uspet and cry a little, but I wouldn’t cry your eyes out. It’s not worth it. The majority of us are only 8-12 years old. We are kind of young to have a boyfriend. I also don’t think we are ready for the drama that’s involved in having a boyfriend. If your boyfriend cheats on you or breaks up with you, you are going to be really upset. It also puts stress on us and that’s not healthy for kids our age. It’s ok to have a crush on someone, but we’re too young to have a boyfriend. So don’t get to upset if you find out that your crush doesn’t like you, it’s not worth it and as I voted, there’s always tomorrow!!
xoxoEmilyxoxo
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you might want to just send him a note saying that you like him, if he says that he doesnt you back then he might not be the guy for you, thats what i did
Love, kaitlynn
Be Patient
if you just give your crush some time and flirt with him a little bit you never know he might change his mind about likeing you and relize what big mistake he made for not admiring your beauty.
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I hope i`m first! i just luv this poll. it is soooooo helpful! CUL8R!
a guy friend
i think that itd be best to stay friends i guess.
lola
a guy friend
i think that itd be best to stay friends i guess.
lola
Yeah
I think that some people should’nt get upset over one little thing——a boy not liking you. We’re only kids! We’re WAY too young to have boyfreinds and everything. Some of my frends get SO upset when a boy doesn’t like them. It’s totally not worth it!!!!
TRUE!
That is SO true! Your time will come! Do not worry .. every girl gets her own time!!! I think we should wait until 10th grade to have a boyfriend. Plus aren’t the boys supposed to ask out the girls? weird!
my experience
well i really liked this guy before i found out he liked my other friend. i felt really horrible about getting my hopes up! i think you just have to make your move before someone else does and if people spread rumours, just laugh at them when you get the guy!! and if you don’t… you tried
2Morrow!
Hey girls! just remember, there is always 2 morrow! dont get 2 upset! kalley
Crush
If a crush doesn’t like you back… don’t worry! Become really good friends with him first. Once he sees that you’re a great person, he might even like you back one day!
Boy Trouble
I have a major crush on a cute guy in my class. He is SOOOOOOO cute! But I know he likes another girl and he’s already asked her out three times. But she’s said no every time, so I think I might have a chance. How do I get him to notice me?
What If*?*
Sometimes your crush does like you but will DEFINITLY! not admit it. My friend is like the Dating Wizard she thinks he likes me a little and so does my other BFF. Im so confused
If your Crush doesn't like you...
…It might be hard to accept and you might feel down for a few days, even months (or longer). If you’ve been crushing on this boy for a long time you might wonder if he ever liked you before and if you’d been brave enough to tell him before if he might have liked you back… don’t wory about what has been, try to focus on what you want in the future not on all the things you regret. Cry for a bit if it helps then get out with your friends and try to have fun. If you run in to your crush again and you still like him just give him a quick smile, over time you might become friends if you want to (unless you already were in which case it’s hard to go back to where you were). Good Luck and remember: Shoot for the moon ‘cause if you miss you’ll hit the stars and Life isn’t perfect but make the best of what you have while you have it
Ya who cares
Ya who cares if your crush doesn’t like you! You have lots of friends! Spend time with them! Because boys will come and go but friends are there to stay. And sure boys are cute but friends are awesome! I would rather have a BFF than a BF any day because friends are forever boys are so whatever k guys keep together don’t let a boy ruin your friendship!<3
<3Taisey<3
my crush issues
i rly rly rly like this guy and he has told all my friends he likes me but i thought it might be better to stay friends that way if we broke up we wudn’t hav 2 deal w/ the awkwardness so when my bff gave me the heads up he was gonna ask me out i was like o i rly like being rly good friends but thats cool but she told him it wud be better if we were just friends but now i’m like i want 2 go out w/ him but now everyone is saying he isn’t going 2 ask me out b/c of what my bff said what do i do???/ does he still like me???
OK.... so I need major boy help, like.... NOW!!!
Ok, so I sit by this really cute boy in class, and I really like him. He’s made up cute nicknames for me, he tells his freinds about me, he never makes fun of me, and we are good frineds. He thinks I’m funny too, which is cool, cuz he’s mega funny too. I wanna tell my bffs I like him, but I’m too afraid the secret might get bout and everyone know. But I think that this guy might like me too. You peoples have any advic for me?! Because there’s a rumor going around that me and this guy are going out, but we aren’t, and sincev I have told anyone I like him… that means that he must of told one of his that he likes me. So PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I’m totally stuck on what to do here!!!!
the boy who liked me: a tale of drama love and heartbreak
this mite not have much 2 do w/ the poll, but its still a sad story. once upon a time, it was 5th grade. a boy, whose name u will never kno, liked me. yea, and i found out. it was obvious, tho. he always said hi 2 me in the hallway, and… idk, i could just tell. that and my mom and his mom were on the yearbook comittee, and his mom said he talked about me alot, and my mom told me… if u could follow that, wow ur amazing. anyways, the next year was my first year of middle school. he became popular. I became unpopular. And he was mean 2 me. He flat out insulted me 1ce, and hes never talked 2 me since. i never said anything, but the thing is, the insult was weak. he seemed satisfied w/ it, but… idk. he became my worst enemy in that 1 year. its kinda been a while, but i dunno, is he sry? does he take it back? does he h8 me? does he like me? IDK! BUT I CANT STAND NOT KNOWING ANYMORE! URGH! o yea, and im also wicked shy, so talkin 2 him is impossible 4 me. so i have a bunch of questions: a) what does this mean? b) what now? and c) WHAT SHOULD I DO? (or nothing) HELP!
-a girl who needs help. now. plz pples, dont let me down!
Crushed from crushing
I have had such a hard time wish crushes for years. I’m in 6th grade now, and I now know that you can’t really heal a broken heart. You just have to live with it.
Boy likes the BFF
omigosh this is actually happing to me!!I’ve had a crush on this guy for like,a year,and my BFF asks me if he likes me too.He said NO.And recently we found out he really likes HER!Sure I was upset at first,even with my best friend!Until I thought about,and realized its not HER fault he likes her!She doesn’t even like him back(she has a boyfriend!)!So if that happens don’t get mad at your BFF.Just find a new crush!I did… ;)