Take a Time Out

Everyone feels overwhelmed, anxious, stressed, or exhausted every now and then. It can be difficult to manage those feelings, but if you can stay calm, you'll be able to deal with all of life's surprises better. Here's one way to help you stay calm, slow down, and relax. Sit in a comfortable, cross-legged position with your spine straight. Let your eyes close and bring your awareness to your breath. Feel yourself breathe in and out. After a few breaths you'll notice you can take longer and deeper breaths. Gradually try to lengthen your inhales and exhales for 10 counts each. When you're done open your eyes and notice how you feel. Are you calmer? More relaxed? Ready to face the day?

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bebesport on Wed, 06/23/2010

Busy Bee

Man its so hard becuz i have lyk 10 extra pages of hw every day.I had to qit dans 2wic just to get stress of me. im lucky cuz scools out tomoro
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maddiemac555 on Tue, 06/15/2010

Well

I’m way paranoid about like everything I will just freak out and talk about it and bounce around and get a really high-pitched voice. Sorry I always title my comments Well ‘cause well what else am I supposed to put?
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gigi elphie on Thu, 06/10/2010

that + music = total relaxation

thats a good idea but it works better with music. happy music of course :D
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bbsoccer19 on Sat, 06/05/2010

Completely awesome idea

I am always feeling stressed. I get the feeling I will be using this a lot! ;)
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SANTASONG on Wed, 06/02/2010

Good idea

When im mad at someone I usually bite my lip really hard and that gets all my anger out.But im probley going to try that idea.It seems to work with a lot of people I know.Its a great Idea.
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waterpisces101 on Wed, 06/02/2010

stress

this is a good tip. i will use it in math class!!!
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JazzHands507 on Tue, 06/01/2010

Thanks so much! That will

Thanks so much! That will help me in the mornings!!!!!!!!!! :)
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Vang824 on Tue, 06/01/2010

Stress!

This really works well for me! Everytime i get stressed, I’m totally going to use this!
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softballgal123 on Mon, 05/31/2010

the worst day/best

today it rained and im having a sleepover with pianogal123 and another friend .i am sooooooooooo exided!
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maddiemac555 on Tue, 06/15/2010

Uhh....

Random.
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gymntastic on Sat, 05/29/2010

?

is this supposed to make me feel light headed???
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sarabr on Sat, 05/29/2010

Yes i get stresssed

There are many reason’s why girls get stressed!!!! Sotimes it’s because of boy’s or freind problems but we alway’s have a way to calm down
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daddysprincess on Sat, 05/29/2010

i get EXTREMELY stressed when

i get EXTREMELY stressed when i have math class, but i calm down in pretty much every other subject.
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gymnast13 on Thu, 05/27/2010

Help me....

I really need help. well i have two neighbors and they are like 4 and 5 but they are really annoying. sometimes i get tired of hearing my name over and over and they won’t stop talking.They make me mad sometime or a little annoyed i don’t know what to do or say can someone help me
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IM-AWESOME on Thu, 06/03/2010

RE: Help

ok. now try to do activitys with them that include fun for them. tell them, as an example,”ok, were going to play a game, but after you have to let me read (or draw,go on the computer,ext.) ok?” have them pinky swear oor something. that way you get what you want and so do they. works for me =D
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softballgal123 on Mon, 05/31/2010

soooooo sory

it must be horrible i have a 4year old sister she also sometimes gets on my nerves!
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horsegirls2 on Thu, 05/27/2010

I never get stressed. I just

I never get stressed. I just go with the flow!
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bekaboo on Tue, 05/25/2010

ahhhhhh

omg i have the craziest life some1 help me ive tried everything
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GreysonChancelover64 on Tue, 05/25/2010

Friend probs!

I have two best friends who hate each other. It is very hard because I feel like I’m in the middle of the whole situation when I don’t want to. Now my best friend didn’t talk to me today and I’m afraid she’ll be mad at me all the time. I wish that they will sort this out so I won’t have to choose who to hang out with. What should I do??
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bekaboo on Tue, 05/25/2010

:)problem solved:)

oooh girl that is tough but i wouldnt get in the middle of it what i did when that happened 2 me was i pretended nothing was going on and i didnt take sides. eventually they sorted it out on their own!!!
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bekaboo on Tue, 05/25/2010

what works 4 me

what i do is i run up to my room and get under the covers. i turn on some music and text my friends and after lyk 20 minutes, its time for my 7TH FREAKIN EXTRA TAP REHEARSAL THIS WEEK! aaargh some1 help me its the week of my dance recital im in 4 dances and my tap teacher is driving me INSANE!!! we are doing a tap dance to Will Rodgers Follies(u probably dont know what tht is) and the lead role of Mr. Rodgers is my worst enemy he is the owners son so he gets everything and he thinks he is awesome but he really isnt yesss i know this is a run on sentence. but my tap teacher makes us come to extra rehearsals every day almost and i cant calm down wanna know why? go to youtube.com/ourfavoriteson and find the video that says it is broadcasted live from japan or something the part where they sit down and do some sort of hand jive is what we have to do so please give me ideas on how…to…DEAL!!!
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brookls on Wed, 05/26/2010

wow, you seem like a busy

wow, you seem like a busy person, if you enjoy dance alot and want to be famous one day then you will have to deal with all this stuff, all the time, but if its getting too stressful on you, your not doing your homework, and don’t have time for friends, maybe you should cut back your hours and consentrate on other stuff, or maybe set out an hour a day, to hang out with your friends and stuff, hope this helps.
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bekaboo on Thu, 05/27/2010

yah its normally not like

yah its normally not like this bujt this year…omg and my dress rehearsals tonight so its kinda leaning on normal
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fancylover on Tue, 05/25/2010

Stress

Here what i do i sit somewhere quiet where no one is around and I listen to music and try to go to sleep. It really helps a lot! You should try it next are stressed or just need some time alone!
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ajbmb on Tue, 05/25/2010

How 2 deal w/ stress

When i am stressed, I go lay on my bed and listen to music. I always calm down if i do that. <3
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Bratty girl on Tue, 05/25/2010

School stress

I kind of get stressed out after a hot day at school. So when I return home I quickly go for a bath and than eat my food. Sometimes I quick nap works miracles.
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haygirl22 on Mon, 05/24/2010

i can cry very easily so when

i can cry very easily so when my mom yells at me and what i do is stay alone in my room just sit down and cool off
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fyjued23 on Sat, 05/29/2010

:)

AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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SammiRox on Sat, 05/29/2010

me 2

i know same thing w/ me. but i just pet my dog or something 2
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pianogal123 on Mon, 05/24/2010

wow!

Yet MORE good advice from dg! where do you find all these tips? Thank you!
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jlkdancer on Mon, 05/24/2010

just relax!!

girls get so involved in sports and the arts that they get stressed out and forget to relax. i get migrains if i don’t relax so if you don’t consider yourself luckey!!!-
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waterqueen on Mon, 05/24/2010

Ways to Calm Down

You can do whatever interests you by yourself to just think. If your into nature try taking a walk. If your into beauty try taking a lavander bubble bath and painting your nails. Listen to some calming music or do some yoga. YMCA’s usually provide yoga classes for kids and begginers.
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Berryblue on Mon, 05/24/2010

Relax

Another thing to do when your stressed is listen to calm music. Sitting outside when its nice out helps clear your mind too.
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BigB on Mon, 05/24/2010

calmness

i usally dont that stressed out that i have to sit a collect my thoughts. but i am naturaly calm and if i am stressed i usally lose it(cry)
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susmitha_rox on Mon, 05/24/2010

totally!

i do that what i’m in stress and besides that, i do yoga every day.
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fyjued23 on Mon, 05/24/2010

TRUE

I think its a good idea to just sit in a quiet room and just not think about how your milk spilled at lunch, or you con a F on your math test, its a good idea to have ” me time”
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Kirbylover on Wed, 05/26/2010

I think so to...

I think your right I mean me and my friend were fighting and I just needed to sit alone for a while.
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pismodunesblondie on Mon, 05/24/2010

agreed

I totally agree, everyone needs their “me time!”
Faithful77's picture
Faithful77 on Mon, 05/24/2010

HEY!

We’ve been members for the same amount of time! COOL! PEACE!!! :-) -Faithful77
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pianogal123 on Mon, 05/24/2010

Cool!

Were in the same state!!!
Faithful77's picture
Faithful77 on Mon, 05/24/2010

Breathe in and out

Yeah DG I agree. This did help me feel more calm. Thanks PEACE!!! :-) -Faithful77
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owl_actress72 on Mon, 05/24/2010

♥♥♥♥1st comment!!♥♥♥♥

kewl 1st comment of the article! anyway, stress is hard, but i get through it luckily!!!! so ANYWAY, i think exercise, eating right, that kinda stuff, has helped to, cuz it helps u focus 2!!!
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cam1236 on Mon, 05/24/2010

wwooowww!i shld try that!plus......

u see in the morning before school i do small yoga?/flexible moves to help me to not stress on my day i should try that 1 tomorrow morning!:)ps if u want a chat room tell dg about ur ideas:)!!!
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TatiannaG on Mon, 05/24/2010

cool....

Wow ….. it really works!
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