5 Reasons to Be Confident

1. Lots of people love you—more than you even know! 2. Your parents, teachers, family, and friends all want you to succeed. 3. You have unique gifts and talents that make you special. Embrace the things that make you unique! 4. You are a strong person. You bounce right back even when life hands you disappointments. 5. You are a Discovery Girl! That means you have a whole network of girls who understand you right at your fingertips (at Discoverygirls.com). That’s a powerful thing. Please add to this list by commenting below!

51 comments

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Maiacicilia13 on Sat, 07/17/2010

Put your foot down!

No one cares what someone else says they are jealous of you! You are you and if you want to quit being teased put your foot down and walk away! Hope this helped =) Hugs, Maiacicilia
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gigi elphie on Thu, 06/10/2010

bubbles

create a bubble that blocks out other peoples mean comments. in other words, dont listen to what other people think. be yourself and create a bubble. a good way to gain confidence. i like bubbles.
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katefate on Thu, 06/10/2010

gigi elphie

:) You make me smile. I like bubbles, too.
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horsegirls2 on Fri, 05/28/2010

=)

I’m think i am really confedient. I always wear stuff that stands out. One time I wore overalls to school and everybody laughed except my friend madison. I liked them though so it didn’t matter.
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TatiannaG on Thu, 02/10/2011

WOW

WOW! Your lucky, I would NEVER do that, my friends would call me crazy! Maybe I’ll try anyway. 8D
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horsegirls2 on Thu, 05/27/2010

=)4bubbles

every girl is special in their own way!
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elowpeoples on Sun, 05/23/2010

Every girl is beautiful

It doesn’t matter if you are tall, short, smart, athletic, or whatever, you are perfect just the way you are. Don’t let anyone bring you down with their comments. It is often said that sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me. Make this your motto, and you’ll be much happier.
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giruiz1994 on Sun, 05/23/2010

im sooo glad:)

im so glad u had this because my friend has depression problems and im gonna show this to her!!!:)
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Peace_out YAY on Sun, 05/23/2010

Thanks so much!

I used to be self conscious, thinking that I was way too short…(I have been called a midget soooooooo many times) and I personally didn’t think that at all! I realized that I only thought that because other people did! I now now that true attractiveness and all that doesn’t come from being tall and pretty. It comes from the inside, being kind to others and staying confident and staying true to yourself. Don’t hide during lunch just because someone calls you something.Don’t fake you’re someone else just to get into the popular groups at school.You’ll get more friends if you be yourself also. it’s important to know that you are great the way you are. I realized that by reading this! Thanks for this article!
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mara28773 on Sat, 05/22/2010

you are who you are

i feel like i don’t fit in but i am happy with my friends you do not have to be popular to fit in you fit in in your own way you are who you are and you will like it someday
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katefate on Fri, 05/21/2010

Please Read!

I feel like I’m ugly. I feel like I’m too skinny. I feel like I’m pressured to hide all my imperfections! If you do too, you are SO not alone! One boy said, “You’re like the size of a pencil!” One group of girls said “You’re anerexic, I can’t believe I have a sick friend!” My own best friend said “You are way too thin, you know that right?” And people think skinny people are lucky. But it’s painful and dreaded to hear people say that. I told my mom, and she said she felt bad for me. But later, I heard my own mom calling me a brat behind my back! She said to her best friend that I was complaining about being “normal” sized. I was so sad she thought that of me, that it made me run outside a cry! And also, I have freckles. I used to hate them so much, I wear cover up to try to fool people into thinking I had flawless skin. One day, I ran into the girl’s locker room to cry because I was trying to hide my skin. And then my friend came in and told me I was beautiful, and then she took me to lunch and everyone laughed at me. I didn’t know why! My friend had brought me in public to get people to laugh at me because…I had made my makeup smear! It was all over my face and messed up! So I took off the makeup, and my friend told me she only did it because she was jealous, and she had always wished she had freckles. I felt better because she told me the truth. And now that I have nothing to hide but pride, everyone loves me for who I truly am!
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Starstreaksmiles on Tue, 09/28/2010

Awwww..... U stood up great!

U really stood up great!!!…. Just ignore that.. and FRECKLES ARE NICE.!! they;re beter than all the red pimply types i’ve got over my face
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sporty_1411 on Sat, 05/22/2010

Beautiful

You are beautiful on the inside! thats all that matters!
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katefate on Thu, 05/27/2010

sporty_1411

:) Thanks. I never really should of cared. I actually like the way I look. It seems like everyone is too worried about how they look, so they don’t really notice how you look.
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jenna14 on Sat, 05/15/2010

Do you ever feel like you

Do you ever feel like you don’t know yourself? Like you just aren’t good enough the way you are? Well you aren’t alone, many girls feel that way at some point in their lives. Sometimes it’s hard to stay confident in the person that you are…and at some point in every-body’s life there is a struggle to hold on to their sense of identity. The best way to look at it is: if you want to do something…do it, don’t not do something because you’re afraid of what people might think. Don’t not say something because your afraid of what people might say. Most importantly, don’t do something or say something just because it is considered “cool”. If somebody can’t accept you for who you are, than there is no point in being accepted. Your friends should love you for who you are and you shouldn’t have to act like a different person in order to be liked. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re not worth it, or not pretty enough, because true beauty comes from the inside…from confidence and kindness. Beauty isn’t perfect skin, straight shiny hair or blue eyes, beauty is believing that you are beautiful and being yourself. If you are finding that you lack the confidence to be yourself, you’re in luck because there are several easy ways to become confident in your own skin. Easy way #1: participate in sports and activities that you enjoy and feel that you have talent in. By doing this you can feel good about yourself and your accomplishments. If you feel that you have no real talents then maybe try some new out of school activities, not only will you meet new people but you might even find something that your really good at. Easy Way #2: hold your head high! By having a confident posture you can avoid being bullied, or pressured into doing or saying something that just isn’t you. Mean girls don’t pick on people who walk down the halls with their backs straight and heads held high! Easy way #3: embrace the positive aspects of yourself. Instead of straightening your curls use enhancing curl products for a better more controlled curl. Instead of hiding your freckles, flaunt them. The first step to being comfortable with the skin your in is to be confident in the way you look…naturally. The most important thing to remember is to surround yourself with loving, understanding people who love you for who you are. If you find that your group of friends tend to lower your confidence, then it’s time to find yourself a new set of friends
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cutiegal1006 on Mon, 06/07/2010

Thanks

You are really inspiring jenna14!!! U r so awsome!!
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TatiannaG on Sun, 05/23/2010

Thanks.

That Helped.
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hippityflip on Fri, 05/14/2010

your the harshest person for yourself

another reason to be confident is that chances are you are the hardest person on yourself than any one else, no one else cares that much!!
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Jagur on Fri, 05/14/2010

more reasons!

1 You are you! 2 People care about you! 3 Your amazing person!
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twilight obsessed123 on Wed, 05/12/2010

one more reason...

i have one more reason to be confident…you’re you! that’s why you should be confident! there is no one like you in the whole world, so why shouldn’t you be confident??? there really isn’t anything people have a reason to criticize you over because you aren’t supposed to be like everyone else. every girl is unique, and that’s how its supposed to be! (unless you have an identical twin, in that case you are supposed to look and act alike.)
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llaughingllama on Mon, 05/10/2010

Friends

Where ever you go you will always be able to make friends just by being yourself and they will love you for it!
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kelsijo1 on Sun, 05/09/2010

I agree with every thing listed on here!

Love yourself for who you are!!!!! Everything about you is great,and no one can tell you differently! :) SMILE!!!!!
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dancegirl1118 on Sun, 05/09/2010

reasons

everyone on this website loves you and cares about you! never forget that!
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coolness on Sat, 05/08/2010

that is so right becuse you

that is so right becuse you can be who you want to be and dont let anybody stop you from thinking that
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justinbieberfan01 on Sat, 05/08/2010

AwEsOmE!

LoVe iT!!!!!
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vbestar on Sat, 05/08/2010

Really good!!

That is some really good advice!! I think!!
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vbestar on Sat, 05/08/2010

Yes that is true!!

You are born for one reason and that is……TO BE YOURSELF!!
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lofi625 on Sat, 05/08/2010

one more

you should be happy with your plain,(not really)normal, one of a kind self!!!!!
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Lauen324 on Fri, 05/07/2010

Confident

1. “You’re beautifull, every little piece love. And don’t you know, you’re really gonna be someone. Ask anyone.”- Taylor Swift. Just search up “Taylor Swift, Stay Beautiful” learn the lyrics. instant confidense boost.
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jenna14 on Thu, 05/20/2010

I Love that Song!

I Love that Song!
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Star Briana on Thu, 05/06/2010

Be yourself!!

Some act like their somone else just so they can make friends or to be cool. Being yourself is the person you can be. You don’t have to empress other peolpe with things you don’t like, if you be yourself everyone will like for yourself! Don’t act like someone else because then you be the same in the inside and out. Be happy and be true to youself, no matter what. And trust me be yourself is the best you can be!! :D
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graciegirl on Thu, 05/06/2010

ers

i have a question!! How do you make a picture come up when you’re leaving a comment?!?!
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twirlgirl7448 on Wed, 05/05/2010

i know!!

just go into Speak Out and you’ll see it in the little list. LOL
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Bratty girl on Tue, 05/04/2010

Where are the polls?

Where are the polls for everyweek, DG? I am missing them. I love to vote and check out the results of what the other girls thing ‘bout. Bring them quick. LOL
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Bratty girl on Tue, 05/04/2010

We r what we r!

I never feel discouraged if someone in my school make fun of me and my stuff. Its not like we have to be accepted by everyone. Others don’t matter in the life “we” lead. People making fun of us might be jealous of us. We must always be happy with the way we are. Then the things that others say won’t matter 4 us. :-)>
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cam1236 on Tue, 05/04/2010

dg

i love dg 1 reason because all the girls u talk to and the writers belive in us oh and i think they should add a chatroom so we can just talk without getting checked on our typing like u get banned if u be mean but if ur nice u can talk and make new friends in the new dg chatroom!comment if u like this idea!:)
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Erin7 on Tue, 05/04/2010

dg

DG editors can this friday funnyies be most funiest make over ? well thanks for reading my coment ! if you dont all ready have one ps Love every one !
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kAt cOyOtE on Tue, 05/04/2010

Love Yourself!

People are constantly spreading mean rumors about me. It used to get to me, but then I realized that you should show your true color, and just not care what people think or say. Love who you are! :)
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319princess on Tue, 05/04/2010

thanks!

I recently lost a lot of my confidence going through bullying. But, I learned that I would have to be confident if I wanted this mean girl to stop! These tips are great! Thanks again, DG!
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danicasweet12 on Mon, 05/03/2010

Confidence is awesome

Everyone seems confident sometimes, and many times not so much. Think kindly of yourself. Push bad thoughts out of your mind, and don’t let people get to your nerves. Be glad that you’re yourself. Yeah, you might not be as smart as your best friend. Sure, you might think that girl is prettier then you. But you are you. And that is the best person you can be.
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orangeflowerblossom43 on Mon, 05/03/2010

Nice

Thats some really good advice!
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george15667 on Mon, 05/03/2010

confidence, sometimes i have it sometimes i don't

yeah i know confidence is the key and all that but it’s really hard when people are degrading you. i have been bullied by various people since kindergarden. i’m now in junior high. i really don’t know why they bother me so much or why why they hate me. is something seriously wrong with me or am i just not normal?
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pianogal123 on Mon, 05/03/2010

THE BIG REASON!!!!!!!!

the reason is some people tease other people about how they look or what they do. and it huuurts! trust me iv’e been a victim. but my advice, IGNORE!!! you are the only you in the UNIVERSE!!!! so be proud of it no matter what they say!
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Faithful77 on Mon, 05/03/2010

more tips are...

6. You should just be you. It doesn’t matter what the most popular girl at school thinks. She’s not YOU! 7. Confidence is the key to succeeding. If you believe in yourself great things you don’t know of might happen. 8. If you show that you believe in yourself you can be an inspiration to other girls. Hope you like my advice PEACE!!! :-) -Faithful77
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shastagirl11 on Mon, 05/03/2010

Tips

6. There is NO ONE else like you. You are unique from every other girl in the world, and you can’t be replaced. Show off your stuff! 7. Everyone has something to bring to the table. Whether it be knowledge, humor, or just your awesome personality, share it with others. 8. You become stronger all the time. When you achieve something, your self-esteem skyrockets. Even if you don’t always succeed, you learn from your mistakes and grow stronger with knowing that you can and will improve. Your optimistic attitude makes people run to your light.
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susmitha_rox on Mon, 05/03/2010

Be confident!

Go with your soul, not what everybody else thinks! You can lead other people to go the right way if you go the right way by doing what you think (you know) is right! Never let the bad habits of everyone else let you down! You are unique, gifted, gorgeous, and amazingly amazing just the way you are! So, do what you know is right!!
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jlkdancer on Mon, 05/03/2010

TOTTALY!!

so many people dont realize SO many people are rooting for them!!!!!
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Becky2 on Mon, 05/03/2010

More Reasons

6. You were born for a good reason and you are amazing, gifted, talented, and beautiful, just the way you are. =) 7. You don’t let people bring you down by their mean comments and rude actions. =) 8. You are you and that is good enough for anyone. =)
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vbestar on Sat, 05/08/2010

Love you reasons!!

Really good reasons!! Loved them!!
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pismodunesblondie on Mon, 05/03/2010

cool

Love ur reasons!!!!
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